It took the book – Men are from Mars; Women are from Venus – for hubby and I to release we do speak a different language.
I needed to vent; he heard me asking for help; I heard him telling me I couldn’t do it myself.
I speak too much; he not enough. He learned to let me. I learned to not jump on his first words, but to let him find the meaning he meant.
Listening to hear, not reply.