Now that reads so boring and so negative, but there are boring aspects of any relationship.
It’s cleaning the toilet. Washing and/or drying the dishes. Laundry. Taking the garbage out. Cleaning the kitty litter.
Those ick jobs we don’t want to spend time doing but have to be done. They still count as romance when there’s someone who will help or just do them because that’s what you do in a relationship with someone you love and share life with.