Melody’s Pondering

March 16, 2023

I’m writing this for the 16th, but sharing on the 18th…seems fitting since last week was my dad’s birthday and today, 18th, he’s been gone for 18 years. Dang, and my grandfather died when I was 18…both of these men taught me what to expect from any man in my life, I was lucky that way. They also believed in me and supported my dreams. I know the two of them are getting into mischief no matter where the universe has them 🙂

March 9, 2023

This was a difficult day. I couldn’t concentrate on much; therefore, I didn’t get much accomplished. I’m thinking it’s because my dad would have been 92 today and somewhere inside my emotion of missing him snuck up and took over. He’s missed so much and then it feels like he’s here in so much that we do. Treasure those you love.

March 2, 2023

How many have heard the saying that nothing good happens in the wee hours of the night…morning? I’m not sure 1:41am counts as this, anymore, but here I am pondering away. I napped from 7-9pm and while I am tired, here I am with my mind wilding away. That’s what I know happens in the wee hours of any day or night…the memories overtake. Better them than the worries, right?

February 23, 2023

Last night and into this morning, we had a freezing rain/ice pellet storm. I stayed awake till after 1am to watch the weather, only candles glowing. There is something magically about a winter storm…as long as all of yours are at home safe. Every moment of living has a different feel depending on the individual, such as that storm…magical for one while deadly for another. Thunderstorms with loud clashing and flashing, racing, wild lightning unnerves me while a friend found the same exciting. Today it all just looks dull and messy.

February 16, 2023

Just realizing my ponderings really are working like a daily diary of thoughts, sorry bit side tracked there. The weather has been a bit above temps lately and the news is we’re heading back to normal cold, freezing rain, and snow later today which is why I’m happy I bought some flowers last Friday and I may just buy some more this weekend. Not because it’s Valentine’s timing. Simply because I wanted some flowers. Treat yourself, even 1 flower can make all the difference

February 9, 2023

Spent time yesterday prepping overdue blog posts and such, you can tell from the posts to my page today. I had forgotten how much I missed writing. Sounds strange to say that out loud to public, but there it is. Not to lock the world away while I find my way back into my fictional worlds.

February 2, 2023

Welcome to the Love month, at least the time we feel pressured to celebrate and acknowledge our loved ones. I’d rather it be done in small bits year around; however, I’m not opposed to flowers, even the odd box of chocolates. It’s also a time to remember those who have loved us and are not here anymore. Everyone deserves to be loved and, hopefully, we’ve all been loved at least once in our lives. I’m lucky, I’ve given love and received love. I hope you have as well.

January 26, 2023

There are times my mind has me questioning it, like this pondering. If I have Iris’ symbol being hand fans, what would it be for the colder seasons? I don’t see how fanning yourself or hiding behind a hand fan would work in freezing temps. Shawls. I’ve come up with shawls, after not finding anything useful in my search. I like curling up with a shawl; a shawl can add a touch of mystery to any outfit; a shawl can even be a bit of a barrier. Yes, a shawl for fall into winter.

January 19, 2023

I’m writing this at 7:42am, but have been in update Hades since 6am travelling down the rabbit-hole of confusion. Not a good sign for the day to come, but I will make the most of it because this has all been due to changes I’ve made in my business-life. Choices that feel lighter…normally means it’s a right decision…but the clean and clearing required can open a can of mess, say like you’ve done all the dusting and vacuuming only to discover the one dust bunny blatantly hanging on to the wall for all to see after you’ve put away all the cleaning instruments (that were carried back upstairs and fought going back into their place). Yes, it may just be one of those days.

January 12, 2023

Treat yourself. It doesn’t have to be big or expensive, a single flower can brighten any mood. A quiet read. Watching a favourite movie. A trip to the bakery for an individual-size cake. Do something for yourself.

January 5, 2023

How’s this for romance…35 years ago a mutual friend introduced hubby and me. Without this introduction our daughter would not be here celebrating her 21st birthday…not only that but it is the birthday of said mutual friend. Never doubt the possibilities.

December 29, 2022

We’re heading into a new year with thoughts of new promises and better/stronger times. Let’s not forget the good times of the past year. The challenges met, the wonderful surprises, the births, and so much more. We’ve said goodbye as well and will carry memories forward. Be safe. Be well.

December 22, 2022

Happy Holidays. Spending most of the day with family. Be safe.

December 15, 2022

Slow recovery, but not enough to feel anything but love of soup and soft nose tissues.

December 8, 2022

Nothing romantic about being sick.

December 1, 2022

Hello, December. Are your Holiday movies romance or family?

November 24, 2022

No character is perfect because no human is perfect and writers are human…with wild imaginations, but still human. Your characters need to be believable so find their flaw.

November 17, 2022

When writing one aspect you must remember…emotion. You need to feel it before your readers. Writing isn’t a closed artform, no art is and, yes, writing is an art.

November 10, 2022

Some of said memories won’t keep you warm. I disagree. Memories reaffirm you have been loved; you have loved; you are worthy of love. Memories remind us of our strengths. Memories rebuild our confidence. Memories are our stories to tell and continue to learn from. Memories warm from the inside out.

November 3, 2022

Relationships are not hard. It’s not hard to love someone. It’s difficult to express ourselves to those who matter the most when we love them the most because we don’t ever want to hurt them or cause a miss-anything because we’re human and flawed.

October 27, 2022

Love is also patience, especially when she falls asleep while watching the movie she picked out.

October 20, 2022

There is nothing romantic about a hacking cough. The love comes from taking care of each other.

October 13, 2022

I realize February has Valentine’s Day; however, I have always found October to be more romantic. The start of Fall and cooler temps, the first lighting of the fireplace, hot chocolate, and cozy sweaters. Can’t forget snuggling under blankets.

September 29 – October 6

A small step is still a step, right?

August 18, 25, September 1, 8, 15, & 22

Yeah, I’ve been missing in action and wish I had more updates to give. More reasons as to why, but I don’t. I’ve been hiding from writing Iris’ stories. Today I’ve shown up.

August 11, 2022

Timing is everything. There’s so little time and too much time on our hands. What seems like forever and just yesterday. August gets me in a remembrance and regret mood…should’ve done more this summer, should have this , and should have that. My neck of the world school starts the first week of September, so August was always the final lap of freedom before back to the established routine. You?

August 4, 2022

Happy August everyone. There’s a rain storm happening right now and I heard thunder, but the sun is pushing through those clouds. It’s reminding me of romance stories…the love always pushing through the darkness/fog/whatever unhappy moment. Others like their romance curled up away from the unhappy. How do you prefer your romance?

July 28, 2022

Started to clean up the webpages as some updates messed with my widgets. Then being the overly organized person that I am, I had to make sure all the websites shared the same look and order. Some of this is completely fiddle work and goes to show you how easy it is for me to procrastinate. However, a clean area allows me room to work.

July 21, 2022

Happy Thursday. Been rethinking a few character names and I’m happy with what “we” have settled on. Now to settle in the story and what needs writing and what needs to wait.

July 14, 2022

Everything can do with a bit of a refresh and I think my site could benefit with one. Have you ever started something and it feels off until you hit the groove? It’s happening here, stay tuned.

July 7, 2022

Looking forward to seeing what the month will bring. So far it’s been a slow quiet start after the long weekend. Enjoy and be safe.

June 30, 2022

Last day of the month. Another June done and for many another school year completed. Funny, I still count the year by school timings. What will July bring us?

June 23, 2022

Today I want to lock myself away and just be….

June 16, 2022

Time allows for everything to finally click into their place. Never give up…this is the one of the times Never say Never doesn’t apply.

June 9, 2022

Love does not need dramatics. It will be found in the simplest of moments and actions.

June 2, 2022

New month. Nearly a new season. But Love is always Love

May 27, 2022

Yesterday we celebrated our 32nd wedding anniversary. With what happened in Texas, this celebration brought memories of everything we’ve lived, but also that it is the family we have that’s to be cherished.

May 19, 2022

What is a romance mood? Feeling a bit blah and low today, so how do I concentrate on writing romance?

May 12, 2022

Bought two bunches of tulips yesterday with my daughter. There’s something about fresh flowers that lifts the spirit. How do you lift yours?

May 5, 2022

Have I been away from this too long? Self doubt does more damage to dreams then never having dreams to begin with.

January 20 2022

If writing is difficult then writing romance/feel good stories are almost impossible…for me. I’ve been aiming for strictly romance/HEA without any other genre mix and so far I’ve been failing. Covid, summer, life throwing a few hiccups in haven’t helped either.

I’m not giving up.